Well ok then...consensus says I was harsh...who would expect anything different from me by now. I spoke how I felt based on personal observations. When I graduated highschool way back in the 90’s I dreamed of being an aviator...I had an instructor who showed so much passion he pulled the same right out from me. He moved on in his success and I moved away. Years went by and I once more pursued the dream. I spoke with some older helicopter pilots...as I had originally pursued fixed wing. Back then fixed wingers struggled to make a buck while rotor wing made some cash faster in the ranks. All the old salts I spoke to were drowning in self misery and made it purposeful to pass that along to me...so I steered away and went to find a new fixed wing school. My luck...the instructor I found at a small school was more bored than an emo kid at church. I walked away again. Fast forward a decade....and I had grown wiser, with much more perspectives to draw from, and wisdom to see how protrayed opinion was vs who was doing the portraying. I went on the hunt again...found plenty of misery and a few optimistic success stories. I listened. I read. Sometimes people even spoke incite to my naïve mind. I had a dream, a passion, and knew that passion is not built on misery. I followed those who emanated their own passion. With wisdom and determination I succeeded. Many do not. Many who do succeed do it without passion and result in misery. My point is this. If your perspective of success is not in what you pursue...then chalk it up as maybe it wasnt for you. But to forcast that consequence onto a dreamer looking to follow a possible passion is wrong. Pull from them their passion by building it with some of your own. Give them wisdom to success from knowledge only you have. Do not destroy a passion from your own regrets. Aviation is not for everyone...even for some spending years doing it to figure it out. Even at PHI...not everyone enjoys what it is I enjoy. I fly a shallow water field contract in a 407, no a/c, 30-50 landings a day and I live offshore, 14 days on then 14 days off, making the work load more than a cush deep water heavy job would. When I was interviewed the manager layed out the job details. He said can you handle flying 6-8 hours a day? Can you handle doing 30-60 take offs and landings a day? Can you handle 100* heat with 110% humidity and no a/c, doors on conditions? Can you handle a rather rough around the edges customer who demands retarded stuff without concerns of aviation safety and stay professional and focused? Can you handle flying 14 days away from family at a time? I replied...let me get this straight.. You are going to pay me X amount of money to take 13 vacations a year, then when I am exhausted from those vacations, I get one more? And I can fly helicopters the rest of the time? Both were accurate perspectives.....like anything we see out there..which channel do you find your passion from. John